Spanish names: two surnames, Pepe for José, and when to say don
Build a family · pick the parents’ surnames, then the child
Father
Mother
Child
Padre · fatherAntonioGarcíaPérez
Madre · motherAnaMartínezRomero
first surname of each parent
Hija · daughterLucíaGarcíaMartínez
Me llamoI-call-myselfLucíaLucíaGarcíafather’sMartínez.mother’s
meh YAH-moh Lucía García Martínez · “My name is Lucía García Martínez.”Why:García comes from the father’s first surname, Martínez from the mother’s. Pérez and Romero are dropped. Ana stays Ana Martínez Romero after marriage. In daily life Lucía is usually just “Lucía García”.
Short answer: Spaniards have one or two first names and two surnames (apellidos): the father’s first surname, then the mother’s first surname. Women keep their own surnames all their lives. Everyday names are short forms that often look nothing like the original: Pepe is José, Paco is Francisco, Lola is Dolores. Use señor / señora + surname for formality, and don / doña + first name for respect.
How surnames pass down
Three generations of García
Each child takes the first surname of each parent, so each generation drops the second surnames. Since 2000, Spanish parents may choose to put the mother’s surname first, but father’s-first is still the most common order.
Abuelos · grandparents
AntonioGarcíaPérezgrandfather
RosaRuizOrtegagrandmother (mother’s side)
Padres · parents
MiguelGarcíaLópezfather: García from Antonio
ElenaRuizSanzmother: Ruiz from Rosa’s family
Hija · daughter
LucíaGarcíaRuizGarcía from Miguel, Ruiz from Elena
Follow the colours: García (blue) passes down the father’s line; Ruiz (red) arrives with Lucía’s mother and passes to Lucía, then drops in the next generation.
First names
José María is a man, María José is a woman
Compound first names are common, and the first part decides the gender: José María (often shortened to Chema) is a man, María José (Majo) is a woman. Many women’s names come from titles of the Virgin Mary: Dolores (sorrows), Pilar (pillar), Rosario (rosary), Mercedes (mercies).
Men
Women
Compound
Nicknames
Pepe, Paco, Lola, Nacho
Spanish short names (hipocorísticos) are used by everyone, from family to newsreaders. Some are simple cuts; others come from old Latin abbreviations or children’s pronunciation. Tap a card to hear both.
Common surnames
-ez means “son of”
Spain’s most common surnames are patronymics: they once meant “son of” a first name, with the ending -ez (or -az, -iz, -oz). Others describe a place, a job or a feature.
Addressing people
Señor García, doña Carmen
Señor, señora and señorita go with the surname; don and doña go with the first name and show respect, often for older people or a boss. Both take usted. In writing they shorten to Sr., Sra., D. and Dña.