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Spanish names: two surnames, Pepe for José, and when to say don

Build a family · pick the parents’ surnames, then the child
Father
Mother
Child
Padre · fatherAntonio García Pérez
Madre · motherAna Martínez Romero
first surname of each parent
Hija · daughter Lucía García Martínez
Me llamoI-call-myselfLucíaLucíaGarcíafather’sMartínez.mother’s
meh YAH-moh Lucía García Martínez · “My name is Lucía García Martínez.” Why: García comes from the father’s first surname, Martínez from the mother’s. Pérez and Romero are dropped. Ana stays Ana Martínez Romero after marriage. In daily life Lucía is usually just “Lucía García”.

Short answer: Spaniards have one or two first names and two surnames (apellidos): the father’s first surname, then the mother’s first surname. Women keep their own surnames all their lives. Everyday names are short forms that often look nothing like the original: Pepe is José, Paco is Francisco, Lola is Dolores. Use señor / señora + surname for formality, and don / doña + first name for respect.

How surnames pass down

Three generations of García

Each child takes the first surname of each parent, so each generation drops the second surnames. Since 2000, Spanish parents may choose to put the mother’s surname first, but father’s-first is still the most common order.

Abuelos · grandparents
Antonio García Pérezgrandfather
Rosa Ruiz Ortegagrandmother (mother’s side)
Padres · parents
Miguel García Lópezfather: García from Antonio
Elena Ruiz Sanzmother: Ruiz from Rosa’s family
Hija · daughter
Lucía García RuizGarcía from Miguel, Ruiz from Elena
Follow the colours: García (blue) passes down the father’s line; Ruiz (red) arrives with Lucía’s mother and passes to Lucía, then drops in the next generation.
First names

José María is a man, María José is a woman

Compound first names are common, and the first part decides the gender: José María (often shortened to Chema) is a man, María José (Majo) is a woman. Many women’s names come from titles of the Virgin Mary: Dolores (sorrows), Pilar (pillar), Rosario (rosary), Mercedes (mercies).

Men
Women
Compound
Nicknames

Pepe, Paco, Lola, Nacho

Spanish short names (hipocorísticos) are used by everyone, from family to newsreaders. Some are simple cuts; others come from old Latin abbreviations or children’s pronunciation. Tap a card to hear both.

Common surnames

-ez means “son of”

Spain’s most common surnames are patronymics: they once meant “son of” a first name, with the ending -ez (or -az, -iz, -oz). Others describe a place, a job or a feature.

Addressing people

Señor García, doña Carmen

Señor, señora and señorita go with the surname; don and doña go with the first name and show respect, often for older people or a boss. Both take usted. In writing they shorten to Sr., Sra., D. and Dña.

Formal · surname
Buenos días,good morningseñormisterGarcía.García
BWEH-nohs DEE-ahs, seh-NYOR gar-THEE-ah · “Good morning, Mr García.”Señor + first surname only.
Respect · first name
¿Cómohowestá,are-youdoñamadamCarmen?Carmen
KOH-moh es-TAH, DOH-nyah KAR-men · “How are you, Carmen? (respectfully)”Don / doña + first name: older neighbours, a respected boss.
Written
Sr. D.MrAntonioAntonioGarcíaGarcíaPérezPérez
seh-NYOR don an-TOH-nyoh gar-THEE-ah PEH-reth · “Mr Antonio García Pérez”On envelopes and official letters, the full name with both surnames.
Friendly
¡Hola,hiPepe!Pepe
OH-lah, PEH-peh · “Hi, Pepe!”With friends, colleagues and most people under 60: first name or nickname, and tú.
Names in Latin America

The same system, with local habits

Latin America uses two surnames too, but daily life differs: people often use only the first surname, and naming fashions travel fast.

MéxicoMost people use both surnames on paper but one in daily life; Guadalupe and Jesús are very common.Lupe, Chucho
Argentina, UruguayMany surnames are Italian, from 19th-century immigration; people usually use only the first.Rossi, Bianchi
Colombia, VenezuelaCreative first names are common, including English ones and blends of both parents’ names.Yeferson, Leidy
EverywhereA married woman sometimes adds de + her husband’s surname socially, but legally keeps her own.Ana López de García
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