The relative pronouns
Compare this with the article table in the four cases: only the five red cells differ. They all add an extra syllable.
| Masculine | Feminine | Neuter | Plural | |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Nominative | der | die | das | die |
| Accusative | den | die | das | die |
| Dative | dem | der | dem | denen |
| Genitive | dessen | deren | dessen | deren |
Build it: one noun, four cases
The noun stays the same; only its job in the relative clause changes. Choose a role to see which pronoun it needs.
With a preposition: it goes in front
English often leaves the preposition dangling at the end: “the friend I live with”. German never does. The preposition moves to the front of the clause, right before the pronoun, and it is the preposition, not the verb, that decides the case (see prepositions).
| English | German | Why this pronoun | |
|---|---|---|---|
| The friend I live with is a doctor. | Die Freundin, mit der ich wohne, ist Ärztin.dee FROYN-din, mit dair ikh VOH-nuh, ist AIRTS-tinDietheFreundin,friendmit derwith-whomichIwohne,liveistisÄrztin.doctor | dativemit + feminine → der | |
| The house we live in is old. | Das Haus, in dem wir wohnen, ist alt.das HOWS, in daym veer VOH-nun, ist ALTDastheHaus,housein demin-whichwirwewohnen,liveistisalt.old | dativein for location + neuter → dem | |
| The film everyone’s talking about is great. | Der Film, über den alle reden, ist toll.dair FILM, Ü-buh dayn AL-uh RAY-dun, ist TOLDertheFilm,filmüber denabout-whichalleeveryonereden,talkististoll.great | accusativereden über + acc., masculine → den | |
| The people I work with are nice. | Die Leute, mit denen ich arbeite, sind nett.dee LOY-tuh, mit DAY-nun ikh AR-by-tuh, zint NETDietheLeute,peoplemit denenwith-whomichIarbeite,worksindarenett.nice | dativemit + plural → denen | |
| The reason I came (for)… | Der Grund, für den ich gekommen bin…dair GROONT, für dayn ikh guh-KOM-un BINDertheGrund,reasonfür denfor-whichichIgekommen bin…have-come | accusativefür + masculine → den | |
| The town she comes from is by the sea. | Die Stadt, aus der sie kommt, liegt am Meer.dee SHTAT, ows dair zee KOMT, leekt am MAIRDietheStadt,townaus derfrom-whichsieshekommt,comesliegtliesam Meer.by-the-sea | dativeaus + feminine → der |
With things (not people), written German can merge preposition and pronoun into one word: das Haus, worin wir wohnen (VOH-rin). In speech you will usually hear wo instead: das Haus, wo wir wohnen.
“Whose”: dessen and deren
For possession, use dessen after a masculine or neuter noun and deren after a feminine or plural noun. The thing owned then follows with no article.