Relationship advice for women is pretty common. You look anywhere on the Internet and there seems to be another guru popping up, giving his/her opinion about what to do to solve certain problems. What’s my unique selling proposition? I’ve experienced, either directly or indirectly, ever piece of advice I ever gave. For example, during the time I wasn’t sure if Ella was the one for me, I considered cheating on her. Luckily, she nipped the problem in the bud and ensured that I was loyal to her. How? By playing hard to get with me.
1. Playing Hard To Get: Defined
In case English might not be your first language or you want to double check your definition, this is how I define playing hard to get: when you tease someone and encourage them to come closer then moving slightly further away when they come close to catching you.
It’s basically like how “tiggy” or “tag” was like when we were all young at some stage. We all still play it when we’re dating or even after married. In fact, it’s even more important to play it even when you’re married.
2. Chasing One Girl
I don’t know what it is, but for some reason when you’re married, you find that you yearn to be single. I hear that it’s the same for when you’re single, i.e. you yearn to have a companion. Anyway, I wanted desperately to flirt with girls and have fun. It was just me.
My wife saw this and instead of being upset, took me out more, courted me more and in general we just pretended that we were dating again. It took my attention off the other girls and made me slowly reignite my love for my wife. Obviously there was a lot more that happened in between, but playing hard to get allowed me to refocus on winning over my wife all over again.
3. Playing Hard To Get During Marriage
Playing hard to get focuses you on certain girls. Sure, you can play it with multiple women, but whenever you’re playing it, you can only focus on one girl at a time. If the wife doesn’t play it with the husband, if he misses it enough, he will initiate it with other women.
Even worse, they may initiate it with your man! You cannot prevent this; you can’t keep an eye on your man 24/7, nor do I advise it. However, if you make an effort to be flirty and play hard to get with him regularly throughout your day to day interactions, he won’t think of cheating on you. Hey, nobody said relationships were easy to maintain. Hopefully this piece of relationship advice for women was useful to you.